Lost

People get lost down the road. Some people able to find their way out, and some people just stuck where they are. We need map or people's help to get out so that we can reach our destination. I think that's the key, when you get lost you need help. Cause, a lot of time we might not admit or sure that we get lost, but the people around us see clearly where the problem is. It is up to you if you are willing to seek help or just remain in the trouble.

We all want to be happy, less trouble. Sometimes, thing just happen. Do we really have a choice? I think there is, it's depend on how we want things to be. It may be painful or heartache when we make certain decision, but it is for our own good. The reason why we can't make the right choice, cause we are distracted by the temptation and emotion.

Life is not easy. Hope we can find the right direction, right track to reach the destination. Most importantly, we are willing to seek help.

All things come to an end

Suddenly, I have this words flashed on my mind "all things come to an end". What kind of ending do you want it to be? Good or bad; happy or sad; smooth or complicated. It seems we have the choice to choose what ending we want. It takes courage and time to make thing right.

Life seems complicated, many things are out of our control, out of our expectation. It becomes a mess, and you are out of track. You don't know what is right and what is wrong. You wish you can just leave it and don't care. How are you going to mend the thing which has already broken? Eventhough, you try to mend the pieces, it won't become what it was anymore. Why are you still trying? Is it the time for you stop it and get your newe life started?

Too much thinking, too much struggling. Yes, it takes time and courage to end it. The time will come. You are the director of your life, you can choose the ending. What kind of story do you want it to be?

解脱 Release

原来与你爱的人分开也是一种解脱. 开始的时候也许很难受,可是渐渐的就会觉得自由. 如果只能留住对方的身体, 却留不住对方的心是没有意思的. 最好的方法就是放手, 对他好也对自己好. 在一起最重要是要开心,如果整天烦这个,担心那个, 没有一天是开心的,倒不如分手.

原来只要打开胸怀, 大家还是可以做朋友. 做朋友反而更好. 不需要因为他没有打电话和你报告整天的行程或没有关心你而不开心. 对他不再有要求, 他做什么都好, 你也不会过分担心. 这种感觉就叫解脱, 轻松和自由.

Once my friend told me that all things happen for reason. I belive in this quote. Either good things or bad things, they all happen for reason. I should learn how to accept the fact and confront it. It might be harsh or painful, but we learn lesson from every experience. Sometimes, thing doesn't turn out as bad as we have expected. We might over-estimate it. My heart was once broken but now it has recovered. It was not that bad as what I expected. Thanks for everything, at least I am growing through every experience. I feel much more release and happy now.

(By the way, for those who don't understand Chinese, there are different meaning from the Chinese & English. It's tedious to translate. Haha...)