原来与你爱的人分开也是一种解脱. 开始的时候也许很难受,可是渐渐的就会觉得自由. 如果只能留住对方的身体, 却留不住对方的心是没有意思的. 最好的方法就是放手, 对他好也对自己好. 在一起最重要是要开心,如果整天烦这个,担心那个, 没有一天是开心的,倒不如分手.
原来只要打开胸怀, 大家还是可以做朋友. 做朋友反而更好. 不需要因为他没有打电话和你报告整天的行程或没有关心你而不开心. 对他不再有要求, 他做什么都好, 你也不会过分担心. 这种感觉就叫解脱, 轻松和自由.
Once my friend told me that all things happen for reason. I belive in this quote. Either good things or bad things, they all happen for reason. I should learn how to accept the fact and confront it. It might be harsh or painful, but we learn lesson from every experience. Sometimes, thing doesn't turn out as bad as we have expected. We might over-estimate it. My heart was once broken but now it has recovered. It was not that bad as what I expected. Thanks for everything, at least I am growing through every experience. I feel much more release and happy now.
(By the way, for those who don't understand Chinese, there are different meaning from the Chinese & English. It's tedious to translate. Haha...)
原来只要打开胸怀, 大家还是可以做朋友. 做朋友反而更好. 不需要因为他没有打电话和你报告整天的行程或没有关心你而不开心. 对他不再有要求, 他做什么都好, 你也不会过分担心. 这种感觉就叫解脱, 轻松和自由.
Once my friend told me that all things happen for reason. I belive in this quote. Either good things or bad things, they all happen for reason. I should learn how to accept the fact and confront it. It might be harsh or painful, but we learn lesson from every experience. Sometimes, thing doesn't turn out as bad as we have expected. We might over-estimate it. My heart was once broken but now it has recovered. It was not that bad as what I expected. Thanks for everything, at least I am growing through every experience. I feel much more release and happy now.
(By the way, for those who don't understand Chinese, there are different meaning from the Chinese & English. It's tedious to translate. Haha...)
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